I love my wife, it is not possible to accept the fact that his wife was having an affair, but could not save her heart.

. case A

. I love to offer To the family

. but her heart has been dedicated to other people

. Name: Mr. Lin Sex: Male

. age: 30 years Education: Undergraduate

. wife and I married two years, I have two years to go home, in addition to a work unit, also opened their own company. His wife is beautiful, I do not want to see her in the outside appearance, even if it means no matter how tough their points at home to do her full-time wife.

. I work every day very busy, busy days and nights and sometimes do not go home often is, I do Feiqinwangsi for this busy family, his wife is to be able to live happily ever after. This may be my good wife does not appreciate, buying half a year ago she had an affair. To that end, she and I Chaoguo, Naoguo also spoken to every little effect, often the day before, we will have to talk about the next day she found the man and ties. In recent days, and his wife do not go out, and I think she has to repent, I inadvertently discovered that they had very energetically in the online chat.

. I love my wife and I do not want a divorce, the wife away from the heart, I have the distance.

. diagnosis : "emptiness" of his wife Lin is the problem. Mr. Lin is only concerned about his wife's material needs, while ignoring the spiritual needs of his wife. Mrs. Lin no jobs and no children, and often can not see her husband, the voice of the heart did not listen to people, often lonely emptiness around her, such as negative emotions accumulated to a certain extent, can not be released in a timely manner, or her husband did not enough The emphasis will be looking to clear out the channels. At this time not so long as their hate of the opposite sex can be a little concerned about that point, or willing to accept her heart, she easily have an affair.

. prescription: to measure indicators of well-being not only refers to the material aspects of the meet, but also spiritual, that is, the inner feeling of being seriously be respected. Mr. Lin no matter how busy, and should set aside time for family, as far as possible to communicate more with his wife, from the wife's point of view to think, to listen to his inner voice, with a view to be affiliated to reach. Mr. Lin also suggested that rich life. Between husband and wife's life or when there are a number of changes and surprises, such as tourism, holiday celebration, family gatherings, especially of the new way of life, Mr. Lin's wife to give time to believe that his charisma, his wife love to probation so that she Back to have lost heart. If possible, encourage exchanges between friends and family with his wife, her participation in the work of its capacity, she played strong, so she found that the value of their own to find fun.

. case B

. I derailment of her anger

. How can we return to this house before?

. Name: Mr. Wei Sex: Male

. age: 45 years old Occupation: private owners

. Xian-hui's wife is a woman, has been very good to me, often from their homes in love with things I have to eat out, but I have never refused to allow her to spend money. I go to do business, she has also given a free hand from her big brother for me there by a sum of money, so let me start-up capital. I made money, she is still saving. The family bought a large house, she could not bear to throw away the marriage of the old furniture, would like to travel abroad with her, she seems too expensive, and sometimes take her out to dinner, she continues to refuse to be afraid to spend money into high-end hotels that. Doukua her friends Xian-hui, the first I think her ex-saving home is a virtue, but a long time I felt she was too lack of amenities.

. Xiaojun awareness in a nightclub. She is not young, but very funny slender, lively and lovely, I think she also unpredictable. Even her temper with my wife and I are totally different, she does not want to be annoyed to be angry at flighty, unlike his wife, regardless of whether fat to the fire. Even though I was intoxicated with the Xiaojun exchanges, but the reason I have told the house in the first place. But in the end of paper can not hold fire, Xiaojun pregnant, because I can not stand with their families to travel, she called my wife, and she gave me.

. from the loss of family completely calm, not his wife spent a day sitting, that is good and sister on the phone complaining about my infidelity, I have to go home later, she threw things on the curse. I miss the warmth of the past, I know I was wrong, I hope I can take his wife to be as before.

. diagnosis: can not be denied that there is such a social group of men and women, with their pockets more and drums, began to look for all kinds of stimulation, also described as "know how to enjoy life." In this environment, Mr. Wei's soaked forward to seeing the same as a "success" of men, left over 10,000 kinds of life with the right woman, to think that their own homes, "Huitoutulian," there is no life of his wife , Is ready for the kind of mind can imagine. Once the conditions are ripe, it is easy to join their ranks. On the other hand, with the change of time and changes in life, health and the wife does not make the necessary adjustments in the past has become a virtue out of date now, in the absence of good communication, Mr. Wei complained of dissatisfaction with the gradually accumulated to form a knot . In fact, extra-marital affairs in the vent of his wife's discontent. At the same time, extra-marital sexual stimulation and release of the thief Jingchan flu-like, so that Mr. Wei to do so knowing that I am sorry his wife, stop, resulting in a guilty mind, while also able to extricate themselves.

. prescription: the face of the sudden, "an affair" attack, Wei's wife, anger, anxiety, pain, hatred is entirely natural that the initial response. As the saying goes: Ai Zhishen of all hate it. Mr. Wei should understand that their affair has deeply hurt the heart and soul with his love of his wife and family, because she is his beloved, is why we have such a strong emotional reaction. Mr. Wei is now in good faith to do is be honest to his wife, the most important thing is to achieve a clean break immediately and Lovers. At the same time, to the wife, her husband gradually from the derailment of hatred coming out of. As long as Mr. Wei can really return of a prodigal son, I believe that Wei's clever wife will know how to hold his wife's. Another proposal from Mrs. Wei look for things in their own reasons, do the appropriate changes to the husband of a surprise, so that their marriage stronger.

(Editor: Tan Jing-yu)